Schea Unfiltered: The Real Story Blog
Before I Knew: I Wasn’t Broken. I Was Neurodivergent.
For most of my life, I believed my struggles were personal failures. Before I understood ADHD, autism, masking, executive functioning, and sensory overwhelm, I thought I simply needed to try harder. This is the story of who I believed I had to become before I had better language for who I already was.
Schea Unfiltered: The Real Story Blog
I Remembered Myself
Twenty years after leaving an abusive relationship, another painful ending forced me to confront a familiar pattern: trusting other people’s explanations before trusting myself. This is the story of late neurodivergence recognition, rebuilding self-trust, and remembering the person I was before belonging required me to disappear.
Schea Unfiltered: The Real Story Blog
When Her Well Wasn’t Well for Me
Twenty years after leaving an abusive relationship, I entered a Christian crisis organization hoping to gain experience in survivor support and rebuild my relationship with faith. Instead, I found myself in another environment where belonging seemed to require silence, conformity, and distrust of my own perception.
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Leaving Was Not the End
Leaving changed my circumstances, but it did not immediately return me to myself. This is about what abuse can leave behind: hyperawareness, guilt, self-doubt, anxiety, overexplaining, and the struggle to feel free after becoming physically safe.